Rebuilding Family Relationships It's interesting how relationships shift over time. I've been thinking about my relationship with my parents lately, especially through the lens of Knapp's Relational Model. From close childhood bonds to rough patches and finally finding stable (in an agree-to-disagree-but-move-on kind of way) ground as adults, we've basically hit every stage of the model. I'm sharing this from a much better place now than I've been with it in the past, but that's growth, right? The Early Years Things started great - I was that kid who did everything "right." Straight A's, active in our religious community, the works. My parents were my biggest cheerleaders back then. Looking at Knapp's model, we were definitely in the Bonding Stage - lots of trust and understanding all around. Then came college. Dating someone they didn't approve of opened my eyes to some contradictions in their beliefs and actions that I hadn't noti...